Project house of help «Child of God»

Project house of help «Child of God»

Moon and sun

– Night, this night again. Mom, I’m scared. What’s that in the sky, mom?

– This is the moon, son.

– The moon, it’s so beautiful, but the night is darkness, I’m scared. I do not see anything. Mom, don’t go. I’m afraid to sleep on my own.

– I love you, don’t be afraid. I will always be there. I will protect yours a dream from all evil creatures. Sleep well. Tomorrow will be the day, there will be sun, you will see the light, fears will go away, and I will be there. You will live this day is filled with joy and happiness. I promise you. I love you son.

I am Zera, and I will tell you the story of my life. The story of a woman who dedicated her life to her children. You will say: “Many do this.” Yes and no.

My choice was conscious. I knew what I had to do to save my son. Forget about my desires, live and do only what was necessary for his survival. I made a choice in favor of God and life according to his commandments, as much as it is possible for an ordinary person.

“This is the only one who was, is and will always be next to me, no matter what,” I said to myself. I am a mother of a son with Asperger’s syndrome.

What is Asperger’s syndrome, in other words, autism spectrum disorder? The main symptoms of the disorder are problems in social interaction with others.

His outlook on life is different from the outlook on life of an ordinary person. Because of this, he has to suffer. His whole life is dedicated to finding himself and his place in life. He would like to live like everyone else, but he cannot. His brain perceives information differently.

Many famous people lived with this syndrome. For example, Abraham Lincoln, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Bill Gates, Robbie Williams and many others. Then the question arises, is it a disease or are these people geniuses? If geniuses who look like ordinary people, I think,
no.

Science still does not know who these people with Asperger’s syndrome are. The only hope is that over time people will understand that this is not a disease, but a different outlook on life.

As a result, few people want to help them, mostly they want to get rid of them in order to live in peace.

I do not blame people, everyone wants to live and enjoy life, and not make sacrifices, forgetting about themselves and devoting themselves to raising a child with Asperger’s syndrome.

I am a mother and I love my children as they are, and I can confidently say that I am a happy mother. I have two wonderful sons, my joy and my happiness, and also my deepest heartache.

There are many mothers like me, mothers-heroines who are ready to give their lives for their child, if only he was happy.

I went through a lot with my son: persecution, humiliation, loneliness, illness, but together we stood firm.

Today I want to help those mothers who have given up, who can no longer fight for their children and their lives, because they have no strength, no support, no work and no sufficient means of subsistence. A single mother raises a child alone, she has no choice: either send him to a boarding school, or give him motherly love and live in deprivation, because the child has no one else except her. Mom is his only support and support.

My story is not only the story of a mother with a child. This is the story of all single mothers with children in their arms. Mothers who once, like me, decided not to give up no matter what.

My dream is to create a support center for single mothers with children with Asperger syndrome. A center where mothers can leave their children for free for the time needed to arrange their lives: find a job, study, take care of their health. Since the life of her child directly depends on the good health of the mother and her position in society. If the mother is healthy, happy and self-confident, she will be able to continue raising her child, despite any difficulties. She will have the strength and opportunity to do so. Many mothers are forced to send their children to boarding schools only because they were not supported in time, since, unfortunately, there was no one to do it. The mother is alone and has no one except her child. A child who himself needs support and care.

In such centers, children will be able to communicate with their own kind, they will have the opportunity to live in the joy and care of the people around them, and not just their mothers. Children will know that besides their mother and their room, there are other people who love them and accept them as they are.

My dream is to give children joy, filling their days with care and love, they will be able to learn about the world from a different side. From the side they have never seen. They will live the life of an ordinary child. Play games, play music, sports and many other things that were always forbidden and that they were even afraid to dream about. Children will forget about the loneliness that destroyed them day after day for many years and will say to themselves: “It turns out that life is not only pain, but also joy.”

Ordinary people think that a child with Asperger’s syndrome does not need what they need, but this is an illusion. Children with such a feature and all of us want to live and enjoy life, and not live in deprivation.

If there are mothers who have gone through what I have gone through, or people who have been touched by my life story, who want to help this world become one step closer to God, please do not pass by! The fate of mothers and children depends on you. Each of us was born by a mother, and each of us was a child. Let’s make this world a better place together!